You are standing on one leg to put your socks on.
And suddenly you are hopping across the bedroom.
Or you are on the cobbles in Loulé, the lovely slippery calçada, and your ankle makes a little decision without asking you first.
Nobody brings this up at dinner. But at the studio it comes up all the time.
Most of my clients are in their 50s, 60s and 70s. Retired, busy, on the golf course, walking every morning. Not frail. Nowhere near it.
And still, balance is usually the first thing to go. Long before strength does.
Here is the part I wish more people knew. Balance is a skill, not luck.
It fades when you stop practising it. It comes back when you start again. At any age. I have been teaching Pilates for 14 years and I have watched it come back more times than I can count.
The problem is that modern life took the practice away without telling you. Flat floors. Sensible shoes. Handrails. The car parked right outside. Your feet and ankles stopped getting difficult questions, so they stopped having answers ready.
This is where the Reformer is honestly brilliant.
The carriage moves underneath you. Your body has to respond, every spring change, every position. That is balance training, happening the whole class, without you thinking about it once.
And here is the bit that matters if you are nervous. A lot of it happens lying down.
That surprises people! But balance starts with a strong centre and feet that wake up and pay attention. You can build both on your back, with the springs supporting you, no fear of falling anywhere in the room.
That fear is half the problem, by the way. Once you start fearing the wobble, you stiffen up. And stiff is less stable, not more. So we take the fear out first, and the balance follows.
What I will not promise is that you will never wobble again. Everyone wobbles. I wobble!
The goal is that when you do, your body catches you. That is what balance actually is. Not standing still like a statue. Recovering.
Socks on, standing up, no hopping. The coffee tray down the patio steps without the sideways shuffle. Off the curb, onto the sand, up from the beach chair, no drama.
One honest note. If you have had falls recently, or you have an inner ear or neurological condition, see your doctor first. Then tell us when you book, because a 1:1 session is the right starting point, and Filipe on our team has a clinical exercise background for exactly this kind of thing.
For everyone else: if you have noticed the wobble, do not wait for it to get worse. Come and practise.
The Beginners Course starts 6 October, four Tuesdays at 17:30, beginners only, and it is made for exactly this. Or come to any all levels class, any morning.
Your balance is not gone. It is just out of practice.
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